What is abstinence? Abstinence means not having oral, vaginal, or anal sex. An abstinent person is someone who’s never had sex or someone who’s had sex but has decided not to continue having sex for some period of time.
Abstinence is a 100% effective way to prevent HIV, other sexually transmitted diseases (STDs), and pregnancy. The longer you wait to start having oral, vaginal, or anal sex, the fewer sex partners you are likely to have in your lifetime. Having fewer partners lowers your chances of having sex with someone who has HIV or another STD.
More Information Some STDs are transmitted through skin-to-skin contact (like human papillomavirus or HPV, genital herpes, and syphilis), so even if you don’t have anal or vaginal sex (or if you use a condom when you have sex), you can get those STDs.
What is choosing less risky sexual activities? Some sexual activities are riskier for HIV transmission than others. By choosing less risky sexual activities, you can reduce your risk of getting or transmitting HIV.
HIV is mainly spread by having anal or vaginal sex without using a condom or without taking medicine to prevent or treat HIV. Anal sex is the riskiest type of sex for transmitting HIV. It’s possible for either partner—the partner inserting the penis in the anus or the partner receiving the penis—to get HIV, but it is much riskier for an HIV-negative partner to be the receptive partner.
More Information The receptive partner’s risk of getting HIV is very high because the lining of the rectum is thin and may allow HIV to enter the body during anal sex. Even though the risk is lower for the insertive partner, there’s a chance of getting HIV because it can enter the body through the opening at the tip of the penis (or urethra); through small cuts, scratches, or open sores on the penis; and through the foreskin if he’s uncircumcised.
Vaginal sex is less risky than anal sex, and oral sex and touching are much less risky than anal or vaginal sex for getting or transmitting HIV. There is extremely low to no risk of getting or transmitting HIV through oral sex or touching.
Choosing activities with little to no risk like oral sex instead of higher-risk activities like anal or vaginal sex can lower your chances of getting or transmitting HIV. If you have anal sex, it is riskier for the HIV-negative partner to be the receptive partner. You can do other things to reduce your risk, including taking medicine to prevent or treat HIV and using condoms the right way every time you have sex. If the partner with HIV takes HIV medicine (called antiretroviral therapy or ART) as prescribed and keeps an undetectable viral load, they will not transmit HIV through sex.
Certain things about your sex and injection partners can put you at increased risk for getting or transmitting HIV. Explore Estimate the HIV Risk to learn more.
Explore other resources from CDC:
Explore tips for talking about sex from the American Sexual Health Association
Learn about the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention’s HIV prevention campaigns:
Some of the same medicines people take to treat HIV can also be taken to prevent HIV. If you have HIV, your doctor should prescribe medicine to treat HIV, called antiretroviral therapy, or ART. People with HIV who take HIV medicine as prescribed and keep an undetectable viral load can stay healthy and prevent HIV transmission.
If you don’t have HIV but are at high risk for getting it, your doctor may prescribe medicines to reduce your chances of getting it. This is called pre-exposure prophylaxis, or PrEP. If taken as prescribed, PrEP is highly effective for preventing HIV. If you have a recent possible exposure to HIV, your doctor can prescribe the same medicines used for PrEP to reduce your chances of getting HIV. This is called post-exposure prophylaxis, or PEP.
What is ART? The medicines used to treat HIV infection are called antiretrovirals. Antiretroviral therapy, or ART, refers to taking these medicines to treat HIV infection.
ART can reduce the amount of HIV (called "viral load") in your blood to very low levels. This is called viral suppression. ART can reduce a person’s viral load to such a low level that current lab tests can’t detect it. This is called an undetectable viral load. ART can be prescribed only by a health care provider.
ART slows the progression of HIV and helps protect your immune system . ART can keep you healthy for a long time.
ART also prevents HIV transmission through sex. People who take ART as prescribed and keep an undetectable viral load (or stay virally suppressed) will not transmit HIV through sex.
ART can also prevent HIV transmission from mother to baby during pregnancy, labor, and delivery.
ART may also prevent transmission from injection drug use. We don’t have data about whether having an undetectable viral load prevents HIV transmission through sharing needles, syringes, or other injection equipment (for example, cookers).
More information: It is reasonable to assume it reduces the risk by some amount, but we don’t know how much.
If you have HIV, it is important that you start medical care and begin HIV treatment right away. ART is recommended for all people with HIV, regardless of how long they’ve had the virus or how healthy they are. ART slows the progression of HIV and helps protect your immune system . ART can keep you healthy for a long time and prevent sexual transmission of HIV as long as you keep an undetectable viral load.
If you’re taking ART, visit your health care provider regularly and always take your medicine as prescribed to keep your viral load as low as possible. If your viral load doesn’t go down with ART, talk to your health care provider about your treatment options or get a second opinion from a doctor who specializes in HIV.
If you’re HIV-negative and have a partner with HIV, encourage your partner to get in care and always take ART as prescribed to live a longer, healthier life and reduce the chances of transmitting HIV to you.
Health insurance will generally cover part or all of the cost for medicine used to treat HIV.
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Cost can be a barrier to getting treatment. If someone doesn’t have health insurance or can’t afford the copay or co-insurance amount, they may be able to get help through Medicaid, Medicare, the Ryan White Care HIV/AIDS Program, and community health centers. A health care provider or the local public health department can tell people with HIV where to get HIV treatment.
Even if the partner with HIV has an undetectable viral load, you or your sex partner(s) may want to use additional prevention options. Using a condom the right way every time you have sex can protect you from other STDs. Using condoms or having the HIV-negative partner take medicine as prescribed to prevent HIV (called pre-exposure prophylaxis or PrEP) can provide added peace of mind. Also consider using additional prevention methods if the partner with HIV
You and your partner(s) should learn about all the available prevention options and make the decisions that are right for both of you.
If the partner with HIV does not have an undetectable viral load—or it does not stay undetectable—you can take other steps to prevent HIV transmission. The following actions are highly effective for preventing HIV:
If either partner has other sexually transmitted diseases (STDs), getting treatment for those STDs can also help lower the risk of getting or transmitting HIV.
Certain things about your sex and injection partners can put you at increased risk for getting or transmitting HIV. Explore Estimate the HIV Risk to learn more.
Explore other resources from CDC:
Learn more about living with HIV by visiting PositiveSpin from HIV.gov
Learn about the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention’s HIV prevention campaigns:
What is pre-exposure prophylaxis? Pre-exposure prophylaxis (or PrEP) is medicine that can reduce your chance of getting HIV from sex or injection drug use. PrEP can be pills or shots.
PrEP can be pills or shots that reduce your chances of getting HIV from sex or injection drug use. Studies have shown that PrEP is highly effective for preventing HIV if it’s taken as prescribed. PrEP is much less effective when it isn't taken consistently.
Among people who inject drugs, PrEP pills reduce the risk of getting HIV by at least 74% when taken as prescribed. Currently, PrEP shots are not recommended for people who inject drugs.
PrEP is for people without HIV who:
Have had anal or vaginal sex in the past 6 months and:
PrEP is also recommended for people who inject drugs and have an injection partner with HIV, or have shared needles, syringes, or other injection equipment .
Because PrEP involves taking medicine as prescribed and regular visits to a health care provider, it may not be right for everyone. And PrEP can cause side effects like nausea in some people, but these generally get better over time. These side effects aren’t life threatening.
If you think you were recently exposed to HIV, there are other antiretroviral medications (called post-exposure prophylaxis or PEP) you can take to prevent getting HIV. If you have been prescribed PEP and have continued risk behavior, or have used multiple courses or PEP, talk to your doctor about taking PrEP.
More Information : For PEP to work, you need to start taking it as soon as possible but always within 72 hours after the exposure. You will need to take PEP for 28 days as directed by your health care provider.
The cost of PrEP is covered by most insurance plans and state Medicaid programs. Under the Affordable Care Act, PrEP must be free under almost all health insurance plans. That means you can’t be charged for your PrEP medication or the clinic visits and lab tests you need to maintain your prescription. Help is also available through commercial assistance or co-pay assistance programs. You can also get free PrEP if you don't have insurance for prescription coverage, or co-pay assistance if you do have coverage. Some states also have their own PrEP assistance programs.
If you’re in a relationship where one partner is HIV-positive and the other is HIV-negative and you are considering getting pregnant, you should talk to your doctor about PrEP. PrEP is especially important if the partner with HIV has trouble getting or keeping an undetectable viral load .
Certain things about your sex and injection partners can put you at increased risk for getting or transmitting HIV. Explore Estimate the HIV Risk to learn more.
Explore other resources from CDC:
Explore tips for talking about sex from the American Sexual Health Association
Learn about the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention’s HIV prevention campaigns:
What is post-exposure prophylaxis? Post-exposure prophylaxis (or PEP) means taking antiretroviral medicine (ART) after being possibly exposed to HIV to prevent becoming infected.
PEP should be used only in emergency situations and must be started within 72 hours after a possible exposure to HIV. PEP is safe but may cause side effects like nausea in some people. These side effects can be treated and aren’t life threatening.
More Information In 1996, the US Public Health Service released recommendations on the use of PEP among health care personnel exposed to HIV by getting stuck with a needle that had been used with an HIV-positive patient. In 2005, the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention released guidelines for using PEP to prevent HIV infection among people who are exposed to HIV through sex or drug use.
Your health care provider will test you for HIV before prescribing PEP to make sure you don’t already have it and may test you for up to 6 months after you begin taking PEP to be sure you stay HIV-negative.
If you’re HIV-negative or don’t know your HIV status and think you have recently been exposed to HIV during sex (e.g., if the condom breaks) or through sharing needles, syringes and other injection equipment (for example, cookers), talk to your health care provider or an emergency room doctor about PEP right away if you are not already taking pre-exposure prophylaxis (PrEP) as prescribed. The sooner you start PEP, the better; every hour counts. If you’re prescribed PEP, you’ll need to take it for 28 days.
Since PEP is not 100% effective, you should continue to use condoms with sex partners and safe injection practices while taking PEP. These strategies can protect you from being exposed to HIV again and reduce the chances of transmitting it if you do become infected while on PEP.
If you have HIV and have an HIV-negative partner, PEP might be an option if they’re not already taking pre-exposure prophylaxis (PrEP) and they’re exposed to HIV during sex (e.g., if you have trouble getting or keeping an undetectable viral load) or through sharing needles, syringes, and other injection equipment (for example, cookers). Encourage your partner to talk to a health care provider about PEP right away to find out if it’s right for them. The sooner someone starts PEP, the better; every hour counts.
Since PEP is not 100% effective, your partner should continue to use condoms and safe injection practices while taking PEP. These strategies can protect your partner from being exposed to HIV again.
Another way you can reduce the risk of transmitting HIV to your sex partners is if you take ART. ART is recommended for all people with HIV, regardless of how long they’ve had the virus or how healthy they are. ART reduces the amount of HIV (viral load) in the blood. If you take ART as prescribed and keep an undetectable viral load, you can stay healthy and will not transmit HIV through sex.
Certain things about your sex and injection partners can put you at increased risk for getting or transmitting HIV. Explore Estimate the HIV Risk to learn more.
Explore other resources from CDC:
Explore tips for talking about sex from the American Sexual Health Association
Learn about the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention’s HIV prevention campaigns:
Using condoms during anal or vaginal sex can help protect you and your partners from HIV and other sexually transmitted diseases (STDs). If used the right way every time you have sex, condoms are highly effective in preventing HIV infection. There are two main types of condoms: male condoms and female condoms. Sometimes condoms break or slip during sex. To help prevent this, use a water-based or silicone lubricant.
What is a male condom? A male condom is worn over the penis during sex. It is a thin layer of latex, polyurethane, polyisoprene, or natural membrane.
Condoms are very effective at reducing risk for getting or transmitting HIV if you use them the right way every time you have sex. Latex condoms provide the best protection against HIV. Polyurethane (plastic) or polyisoprene (synthetic rubber) condoms are good options for people with latex allergies, but plastic ones break more often than latex ones. Natural membrane (such as lambskin) condoms have small holes in them, so they don't block HIV and other sexually transmitted diseases (STDs).
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Theoretically, condoms can be highly effective for preventing HIV if you use them the right way every time you have sex. But in the real world, condoms sometimes break or slip, and are less effective for preventing HIV. Studies show that for people who report using male condoms the right way every time, male condoms are about 63% effective for preventing HIV through insertive anal sex (the HIV-negative partner is the insertive partner), 72% effective for preventing HIV through receptive anal sex (the HIV-negative partner is the receptive partner) and 80% effective for preventing HIV through vaginal sex.
Condoms can also help prevent other STDs you can get through body fluids, like gonorrhea and chlamydia. However, they provide less protection against STDs spread through skin-to-skin contact, like human papillomavirus or HPV (genital warts), genital herpes, and syphilis.
Use a condom the right way every time you have sex:
Don’t use natural membrane condoms for HIV or STD prevention. If you or your partner has a latex allergy, you can use male condoms made out of polyurethane or polyisoprene. Use water- or silicon-based lubricants to lower the chances that the condom will break or slip during sex.
More Information Water-based and silicone-based lubricants are safe to use with all condoms. Oil-based lubricants and products containing oil such as hand lotion, Vaseline, or Crisco shouldn’t be used with latex condoms because they can weaken the condom and cause it to break. With condoms made of polyurethane or polyisoprene, it’s safe to use lubricants that contain oil.
Lubricants containing nonoxynol-9 should not be used. Nonoxynol-9 is added to some lubricants and is effective for preventing pregnancy, but it irritates the lining of the vagina and anus and increases the risk of getting HIV.
Even if you use condoms the right way every time you have sex, there’s still a chance of getting HIV, so adding other prevention methods, like medicine to prevent or treat HIV, can make your risk even lower. If a person with HIV is taking HIV medicine as prescribed and keeps an undetectable viral load (or stays virally suppressed), they will not transmit HIV through sex.
Certain things about your sex and injection partners can put you at increased risk for getting or transmitting HIV. Explore Estimate the HIV Risk to learn more.
Explore other resources from CDC:
Explore tips for talking about sex from the American Sexual Health Association
Learn about the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention’s HIV prevention campaigns:
A female condom is worn by a woman in her vagina during sex. It’s a thin pouch made of a synthetic latex product called nitrile. The female condom lines the vagina and helps prevent pregnancy and sexually transmitted diseases (STDs), including HIV. Some people also use the female condom for anal sex.
When worn in the vagina, female condoms prevent HIV, other STDs, and pregnancy as well as male condoms.
More Information A handful of female condom brands are available in many countries around the world. However, the FC2 is the only one available in the United States. It’s pre-lubricated with a silicone-based lubricant and has an inner and outer ring. The inner ring is used to help you insert the condom and keeps the condom in place in the vagina. The outer ring stays outside the vagina, covering the external genitalia.
We don’t currently know how effective female condoms are at preventing HIV and other STDs when used by men or women for anal sex. But we do know that HIV can’t travel through the nitrile barrier. It’s safe to use any kind of lubricant with female condoms.
More Information Always using a female condom the right way every time you have sex can lower your risk for getting or transmitting HIV. Here are some tips on how to use a female condom.
You and your sex partners might consider using a female condom instead of a male condom. Female condoms can help people use condoms in relationships where it’s difficult to talk about or use male condoms because of an imbalance in power between partners. Female condoms also allow couples to alternate who wears the condom, giving them more options when they have sex. If you or your partner has an allergy to latex, you can use female condoms since they are made from nitrile.
Even though it may be difficult, you can learn how to talk with your partner about condoms and safer sex. And there are many tips for learning to use a condom or a dental dam the right way. Even if you use condoms the right way every time you have sex, there’s still a chance of getting HIV, so adding other prevention methods, like taking medicine to prevent and treat HIV, can make your risk even lower. If a person with HIV is taking HIV medicine as prescribed and keeps an undetectable viral load (or stays virally suppressed), they will not transmit HIV through sex.
Certain things about your sex and injection partners can put you at increased risk for getting or transmitting HIV. Explore Estimate the HIV Risk to learn more.
Explore other resources from CDC:
Learn about the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention’s HIV prevention campaigns:
What is reducing the number of partners? Reducing the number of partners refers to choosing to limit how many sex partners you have in your lifetime.
Not having sex is a 100% effective way to prevent getting or transmitting HIV. If you are sexually active, you can choose to have fewer partners. You can also choose sexual activities that are lower risk for HIV than anal or vaginal sex.
Limiting the number of partners you have can lower your risk for getting or transmitting HIV. You can decrease your risk even more by taking other actions, including using a condom the right way every time you have sex and taking medicine to prevent or treat HIV.
More Information Learn how to talk with your partner about condoms and safer sex.
Talking openly and frequently with your partner about sex can help you make decisions that may decrease your risk of getting or transmitting HIV. Learn more about how to get the conversation started.
Conversation Starters:
The only way to know for sure if you have HIV is to get tested. Before having sex for the first time, you and your partner may want to get tested for HIV and learn the results. Be aware that there’s a window period, which is the time between when a person gets HIV and when most HIV tests will show that a person has it. If you have sex before you learn your test results, using a condom the right way every time you have sex can lower your risk for getting or transmitting HIV.
If you learn that you have HIV, the most important thing you can do is to take antiretroviral therapy (ART) as prescribed. ART can reduce the amount of HIV (viral load) in your blood. Taking ART as prescribed can make your viral load so low that a test can’t detect it. This is called an undetectable viral load. If you keep an undetectable viral load , you can stay healthy for many years and will not transmit HIV through sex.
If you have HIV, the most important thing you can do is be on treatment (ART). If you take ART as prescribed and keep an undetectable viral load, you can stay healthy and will not transmit HIV through sex. If you’re taking ART, follow your health care provider’s advice. Visit your health care provider regularly and take your medicine as prescribed. This will give you the greatest chance of having an undetectable viral load. Even if you have undetectable viral load, you or your sex partner may want to use additional prevention options. Using a condom the right way every time you have sex can protect you from other STDs. Using condoms or having your partner take medicine as prescribed to prevent HIV (called pre-exposure prophylaxis or PrEP) can provide added peace of mind. Also consider using additional prevention methods if you
If your partner has HIV, encourage your partner to take ART too.
If you’re HIV-negative and have a partner with HIV who is taking ART, your partner will not transmit HIV through sex as long as they keep an undetectable viral load. Even if your partner has an undetectable viral load, you or your sex partner may want to use additional prevention options. Using a condom the right way every time you have sex can protect you from other STDs. Using condoms or taking medicine as prescribed to prevent HIV (called pre-exposure prophylaxis or PrEP) can provide added peace of mind. Also consider using additional prevention methods if you are unsure, for any reason, that your partner has an undetectable viral load.
You and your partner should learn about all the available prevention options and make the decisions that are right for both of you.
If you’re not taking PrEP, you can take post-exposure prophylaxis (PEP) if you have a recent possible exposure to HIV. For PEP to work, you must start it as soon as possible, and always within 72 hours of a recent possible exposure.
Having multiple sexual partners increases your risk for HIV. The more sexual partners you have in your lifetime, the more likely you are to have a sex partner with HIV who does not know their status, is not taking medicine to treat HIV, and/or does not have an undetectable viral load. It also increases the chances that you have a partner who has another STD.
Having other STDs increases your risk for getting or transmitting HIV. CDC recommends that sexually active gay and bisexual men get tested at least annually for
— HIV,
— Syphilis,
— Hepatitis B and C,
— Chlamydia and gonorrhea of the rectum if you've had receptive anal sex or been a "bottom" in the past year,
— Chlamydia and gonorrhea of the penis (urethra) if you've had insertive anal or oral sex in the past year, and
— Gonorrhea of the throat if you've performed oral sex in the past year.
Sharing needles, syringes or other injection equipment (for example, cookers) increases your risk for getting or transmitting HIV.
Certain things about your sex and injection partners can put you at increased risk for getting or transmitting HIV. Explore Estimate the HIV Risk to learn more.
Explore other resources from CDC:
CDC’s Male Condom Effectiveness Fact Sheet: Learn how to use a condom the right way, every time you have sex
Learn about the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention’s HIV prevention campaigns:
Sharing your HIV status with your sex partners, and have them tell you their status. This can help you make good decisions about sex and the strategies you use to lower the chance of getting or transmitting HIV.
Certain choices you make about your sexual partnerships can lower your chances of getting or transmitting HIV. This includes being in a monogamous relationship, choosing partners with the same HIV status (serosorting), and having sex agreements to protect yourselves and your partners from HIV.
Any of these actions can decrease the chance of getting or transmitting HIV. But for these actions to help, you and your partner must have accurate information and share it. For example, if you aren’t certain of your HIV status, or if you don’t want to tell your partner you’ve had sex outside the relationship, these strategies won’t reduce your HIV risk. When partners don’t share accurate information, your chance of getting or transmitting HIV can actually increase.
If you and your partner are both HIV-negative and don’t have any sexually transmitted diseases (STDs), agreeing to be in a monogamous relationship can decrease your chances of getting HIV and other STDs. But monogamy works only if both partners are certain they’re HIV-negative and stay monogamous.
More Information If you’re just beginning a monogamous relationship, it’s important for both of you to be tested for HIV.
If both you and your partner have HIV, agreeing to be in a monogamous relationship can decrease your chances of getting other STDs or transmitting HIV to an HIV-negative sex partner.
More Information You may not always know if your partner is having sex outside of the relationship or doing other things to increase the risk for getting HIV or other STDs. Having open and honest communication with your partner is important.
If you’re in a monogamous relationship with someone who has a different HIV status than you, it is important that the partner with HIV take medicine to treat HIV (antiretroviral therapy or ART) as prescribed. If the partner with HIV takes their HIV medicine as prescribed and gets and keeps an undetectable viral load, they will not get or transmit HIV through sex. If the partner with HIV has a detectable viral load, it’s important to know that the overall chance of getting or transmitting HIV increases the more times you have sex. Your risk for getting or transmitting HIV is also affected by whether you or your partner has another STD.
Being in a monogamous relationship can help reduce your risk of getting HIV if you and your partner are HIV-negative. Talk to your partner about monogamy and what you would do if one of you had sex with another person. Be sure that you and your partner understand any agreements you have about sex and talk about any changes in your HIV status or sexual activity. And, if you’re just beginning a monogamous relationship and neither of you have HIV, it’s a good idea for both of you to get tested for HIV before you have sex.
If you’re in a monogamous relationship with someone whose HIV status is different from yours, it’s important to remember that the overall chance of getting or transmitting HIV increases the more times you have sex if the partner with HIV has a detectable viral load. Taking one or more of these actions can decrease your risk of getting or transmitting HIV.
Talking openly and frequently with your partner about sex can help you make decisions that may decrease your risk of getting or transmitting HIV. Learn more about how to get the conversation started.
Conversation Starters
The only way to know for sure if you have HIV is to get tested. Before having sex for the first time, you and your partner may want to get tested for HIV and learn the results. Be aware that there’s a window period, which is the time between when a person gets HIV and when most HIV tests will show that a person has it. If you have sex before you learn your test results, using a condom the right way every time you have sex can lower your risk for getting or transmitting HIV.
If you learn that you have HIV, the most important thing you can do is to take ART as prescribed. ART is recommended for all people with HIV, regardless of how long they’ve had the virus or how healthy they are. ART can reduce the amount of HIV (viral load) in your blood. Taking ART as prescribed can make your viral load so low that a test can’t detect it. This is called an undetectable viral load. If you keep an undetectable viral load , you can stay healthy for many years and will not transmit HIV through sex.
If you have HIV, the most important thing you can do is being on treatment. If you take ART as prescribed and keep an undetectable viral load, you can stay healthy and will not transmit HIV through sex. If you’re taking ART, follow your health care provider’s advice. Visit your health care provider regularly and take your medicine as prescribed. This will give you the greatest chance of having an undetectable viral load. Even if you have undetectable viral load, you or your sex partner may want to use additional prevention options. Using a condom the right way every time you have sex can protect you from other STDs. Using condoms or having your partner take medicine as prescribed to prevent HIV (called pre-exposure prophylaxis or PrEP) can provide added peace of mind. Also consider using additional prevention methods if you
If your partner has HIV, encourage your partner to take ART too.
If you’re HIV-negative and have a partner with HIV who is taking ART as prescribed, they will not transmit HIV to you through sex as long as they keep an undetectable viral load. Even if your partner has an undetectable viral load, you or your sex partner may want to use additional prevention options. Using a condom the right way every time you have sex can protect you from other STDs. Using condoms or taking medicine as prescribed to prevent HIV (called pre-exposure prophylaxis or PrEP) can provide added peace of mind. Also consider using additional prevention methods if you are unsure, for any reason, that your partner has an undetectable viral load.
You and your partner should learn about all the available prevention options and make the decisions that are right for both of you.
If you’re not taking PrEP, you can take post-exposure prophylaxis (PEP) if you have a recent possible exposure to HIV. For PEP to work, you must start it as soon as possible, and always within 72 hours of a recent possible exposure.
Having multiple sexual partners increases your risk for HIV. The more sexual partners you have in your lifetime, the more likely you are to have a sex partner with HIV who does not know their status, is not taking medicine to treat HIV, and/or does not have an undetectable viral load. It also increases the chances that you have a partner who has another STD.
Having other STDs increases your risk for getting or transmitting HIV.
Sharing needles, syringes, or other drug injection equipment (for example, cookers) increases your risk for getting or transmitting HIV.
Certain things about your sex and injection partners can put you at increased risk for getting or transmitting HIV. Explore Estimate the HIV Risk to learn more.
Explore other resources from CDC:
Explore tips for talking about sex from the American Sexual Health Association
Learn about the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention’s HIV prevention campaigns:
Serosorting can reduce your HIV risk if you know for sure you don’t have HIV and your partner is actually HIV-negative. For serosorting to be effective, though, you need to know your own HIV status and your sex partner’s status, without any doubt. This strategy could be risky because your sex partners may not know for sure whether they have HIV if they were not tested recently. Even if they were recently tested, they might be in the window period. Or they may not tell you they have HIV even if they know they have it. Because of these uncertainties, serosorting is less effective than consistent condom use. And even if your partner is HIV-negative, you can still get or transmit other sexually transmitted diseases (STDs).
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The only way to know for sure if you have HIV is to get tested. If you had a possible exposure to HIV since your last test, you need to get tested again.
If you and your partner both have HIV or are both HIV-negative, having sex only with each other will eliminate the risk of getting or transmitting HIV. But if you don’t know your HIV status or your partner’s HIV status for sure, use condoms the right way every time you have sex. This is because some people have not been tested recently. Even if they were tested recently, they may be in the window period. Or they may not tell you they have HIV even if they know they have it. And you can still get or transmit other sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) if you serosort.
For serosorting to be effective, you need to:
Talking openly and frequently with your partner about sex can help you make decisions that may decrease your risk of getting or transmitting HIV. Learn more about how to get the conversation started.
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• When was the last time you had an HIV test and what was the result of that test?
The only way to know for sure if you have HIV is to get tested. Before having sex for the first time, you and your partner may want to get tested for HIV and learn the results. Be aware that there’s a window period, which is the time between when a person gets HIV and when most HIV tests will show that a person has it. If you have sex before you learn your test results, using a condom the right way every time you have sex can lower your risk for getting or transmitting HIV.
If you learn that you have HIV, the most important thing you can do is to take antiretroviral therapy (ART) as prescribed. ART is recommended for all people with HIV, regardless of how long they’ve had the virus or how healthy they are. ART can reduce the amount of HIV (viral load) in your blood. Taking ART as prescribed can make your viral load so low that a test can’t detect it. This is called an undetectable viral load. If you keep an undetectable viral load , you can stay healthy for many years and will not transmit HIV through sex.
• Are you living with HIV and on treatment?
If you have HIV, the most important thing you can do is be on treatment (ART). If you take ART as prescribed and keep an undetectable viral load, you can stay healthy and will not transmit HIV through sex. If you’re taking ART, follow your health care provider’s advice. Visit your health care provider regularly and take your medicine as prescribed. This will give you the greatest chance of having an undetectable viral load. Even if you have undetectable viral load, you or your sex partner may want to use additional prevention options. Using a condom the right way every time you have sex can protect you from other STDs. Using condoms or having your partner take medicine as prescribed to prevent HIV (called pre-exposure prophylaxis or PrEP) can provide added peace of mind. Also consider using additional prevention methods if you
• If your partner has HIV, encourage your partner to take ART too.
If you’re HIV-negative and have a partner with HIV who is taking ART as prescribed, they will not transmit HIV to you through sex as long as they keep an undetectable viral load. Even if your partner has an undetectable viral load, you or your sex partner may want to use additional prevention options. Using a condom the right way every time you have sex can protect you from other STDs. Using condoms or taking medicine as prescribed to prevent HIV (called pre-exposure prophylaxis or PrEP) can provide added peace of mind. Also consider using additional prevention methods if you are unsure, for any reason, that your partner has an undetectable viral load.
• You and your partner should learn about all the available prevention options and make the decisions that are right for both of you.
If you’re not taking PrEP, you can take post-exposure prophylaxis (PEP) if you have a recent possible exposure to HIV. For PEP to work, you must start it as soon as possible, and always within 72 hours of a recent possible exposure.
• How many other sex partners do you currently have?
Having multiple sex partners increases your risk for HIV. The more sexual partners you have in your lifetime, the more likely you are to have a sex partner with HIV who does not know their status, is not taking medicine to treat HIV, and/or does not have an undetectable viral load. It also increases the chances that you have a partner who has another STD.
• Do you have any other STDs?
Having other STDs increases your risk for getting or transmitting HIV.
• Do you use needles or syringes to inject drugs?
Sharing needles, syringes, or other drug injection equipment (for example, cookers) increases your risk for getting or transmitting HIV.
Certain things about your sex and injection partners can put you at increased risk for getting or transmitting HIV. Explore Estimate the HIV Risk to learn more about the risk of getting or transmitting HIV through sex.
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Negotiated safety is a type of sex agreement for HIV-negative persons. People in relationships may have agreements about sex outside the relationship—whether, when, and with whom it’s okay. Sometimes these agreements focus on what kind of sex is allowed inside and outside the relationship. Or the agreement may focus on what prevention methods are used to decrease the chances of getting HIV. Negotiated safety can help HIV-negative couples reduce the risk of getting HIV and other sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) if they follow the conditions of the strategy (all the parts of the agreement).
Negotiated safety can help HIV-negative couples reduce the risk of getting HIV and other STDs if they follow the conditions of the strategy and help to support the relationship and build intimacy. Negotiated safety only works if partners talk openly with each other, plan carefully and follow through on the agreement, and use condoms during sex until they have met all the conditions for safety.
More Information Negotiated safety involves these conditions:
If partners meet all the conditions of a negotiated safety agreement, it can help keep them from getting HIV. If partners break any of the conditions, they can be at high risk for getting HIV. If partners can’t follow the sex agreement or other aspects of negotiated safety, they should use other prevention methods such as PrEP or condoms.
If you and your partner agree to a negotiated safety strategy and follow all required conditions, you can lower your risk of getting HIV. But you and your partner have to talk openly, plan carefully and follow through on the agreement, and use condoms during sex until you’ve met all the conditions for safety.
If you don’t think you and your partner can meet all the conditions of negotiated safety, you can do other things to reduce the risk of getting HIV including:
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Certain things about your sex and injection partners can put you at increased risk for getting or transmitting HIV. Explore Estimate the HIV Risk to learn more.
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Explore tips for talking about sex from the American Sexual Health Association
Learn about the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention’s HIV prevention campaigns:
What does it mean to disclose your HIV status? This means telling your sexual partners the result and date of your last HIV test and having your partners tell you the result and date of their last HIV test.
Knowing your HIV status, telling it to your sex partners, and having them tell you their status before you start having sex may help reduce risky behaviors and lower your chances of getting or transmitting HIV. But sometimes people don’t know their HIV status, or they’re wrong or not honest about it.
If you learned you were HIV-negative the last time you were tested, you can only be sure you’re still negative if you haven’t had a possible HIV exposure since your last test. The same is true for your partner.
More information: Even if you or your partner learned you were HIV-negative the last time you were tested, keep in mind that there’s a window period. This is the time between when a person gets HIV and when most HIV tests will show that a person has HIV. That’s why it’s important to be tested regularly if you have a possible HIV exposure.
If you have HIV, be aware that many states have laws that require you to tell your sex partners you have HIV before you have sex (anal, vaginal, or oral) or tell injection partners before you share drugs or share needles or syringes to inject drugs. In some states, you can be charged with a crime if you don’t tell your partner your HIV status, even if your partner doesn’t get HIV. You can visit HIV.gov to learn about laws that might affect you.
It’s important that you and your partner get tested for HIV and talk to each other about your results so that you can take steps to stay healthy. You might consider getting tested together. Make sure you know what your test result means so you can share that information with your sex partner.
If your HIV test result shows that you don’t have HIV, remember that it only means you’re HIV-negative until the next time you have a possible HIV exposure. Every time you have a possible HIV exposure, you could get HIV. Also, there’s a window period, which is the time between when a person gets HIV and when most HIV tests will show that a person has HIV. That’s why it’s important to be tested regularly if you have a possible HIV exposure.
If your HIV test says you have HIV, you may need to get a follow-up test to be sure you really have it. If you learn that you have HIV, the most important thing you can do is to take antiretroviral therapy (ART) as prescribed. ART is recommended for all people with HIV, regardless of how long they’ve had the virus or how healthy they are. ART can reduce the amount of HIV (viral load) in your blood. Taking ART as prescribed can make your viral load so low that a test can’t detect it. This is called an undetectable viral load. If you keep an undetectable viral load , you can stay healthy for many years and will not transmit HIV through sex.
More Information: If you have HIV and your sex or injection partner also has HIV, encourage your partner to take ART too.
If you have HIV, many resources included in the “Additional Resources” section below can help you learn ways to talk about your status with partners, friends, family, and coworkers.
Certain things about your sex and injection partners can put you at increased risk for getting or transmitting HIV. Explore Estimate the HIV Risk to learn more.
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Explore tips for talking about sex from the American Sexual Health Association
HIV.gov’s Information on Sharing Your HIV Status
Learn about the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention’s HIV prevention campaigns:
What is male circumcision? Removing some or all the foreskin (the fold of skin that covers the head, or glans, of the penis) from the penis is called male circumcision. This procedure is done for hygiene and health reasons or as part of religious or cultural traditions.
When men are circumcised, they’re less likely than uncircumcised men to get HIV from a female partner who has HIV. . There are biological reasons why, for some men, male circumcision may decrease the risk of getting HIV during vaginal sex with a female partner who has HIV. Male circumcision also reduces the risk of a man getting herpes and human papillomavirus (HPV) from a woman who has those infections. However, there is no evidence that circumcision decreases the risk of HIV-negative receptive partners getting HIV from a circumcised partner with HIV.
More Information Male circumcision reduces the risk that an HIV-negative man will get HIV from a woman who has HIV by about 50%.
More Information When a man isn’t circumcised, he still has the foreskin on his penis. The inner lining of the foreskin is different than other types of skin and has more of the cells that HIV infects. The foreskin may also tear during intercourse, providing another way for HIV to infect the body. Also, HIV may be able to survive in the space between the foreskin and the penis. Finally, uncircumcised men have a higher risk of getting other sexually transmitted diseases (STDs), such as syphilis or herpes. Having other STDs can increase the risk of getting HIV.
The evidence about the benefits of circumcision among gay and bisexual men is inconclusive. More studies are underway.
Male circumcision decreases the risk that an HIV-negative heterosexual man will get HIV from a woman with HIV. But there’s no evidence that circumcision decreases any other person’s risk of getting HIV. Also, circumcised men and their partners can still get other sexually transmitted diseases. Take other actions to prevent getting or transmitting HIV, like using condoms the right way every time you have sex or taking medicine to prevent or treat HIV to further reduce your chance of getting HIV.
If you’re a parent, talk to your health care provider about the risks and benefits of male circumcision to your newborn.
More Information To learn more about the decision to circumcise your child, visit the American Academy of Pediatrics.
Certain things about your sex and injection partners can put you at increased risk for getting or transmitting HIV. Explore Estimate the HIV Risk to learn more.
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Learn more about the decision to circumcise your child by visiting the American Academy of Pediatrics
Learn about the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention’s HIV prevention campaigns: